"The Impossible"

 

I recently re-watched the 2012 movie The Impossible, the true story of one family’s experience with the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. It stars Naomi Watts (who was nominated for the Best Actress Academy Award), Ewan Macgregor, and a young Tom Holland.

It’s even better than I remember it and very moving. Highly recommended.

The reason I’m writing about The Impossible now is because I’m going to talk in my Easter Sunday sermon about the real-life experience on which the movie is based and I’d love for folks to watch the movie before coming to church Sunday. It’s currently streaming for free on Amazon Prime, and is of course also available through other streaming services as well.

Let me know if you get a chance to see it before Sunday.

Here’s an extended clip of the wave hitting the Thai resort where the family is spending the Christmas holidays. Warning: not for the faint of heart.

 

Please Don't Listen to This Sermon

 

Keep your ears stopped.
Shut your eyes tight.
Make your necks stiff.
And harden your hearts.
For:
If you hear and see,
If you receive and obey,
This message will bring life abundant.

Do you have ears? Use them.

(Reflections on the Parable of the Sower.)

Series: Gospel of Mark (2022)
Scripture: Mark 4:1-25
Date: Sunday, March 13, 2022

 
 

"But That Is *Exactly* What Happened!"

 

This morning on The Musers, Gordo got on the topic of how quick we are these days to criticize good people by saying they are not doing enough or doing it quickly enough.

“Sure, you say you’re working to end homelessness, but how come I just saw a homeless guy this morning?! If you were serious, then you’d already be doing more. You’re just a phony….” Etc.

Craig and George agreed.

And then Gordo said something really interesting:

He said that if Jesus himself were around today, then people would quickly turn on him and complain that he wasn’t doing enough or doing it fast enough.

 

 

And I kicked around that point for a minute until I thought,

“But, that is actually exactly what happened!”

 

The Dog That Didn't Bark

 

The portrayal of Jesus in Mark’s Gospel is of a man of great power and authority:

  • He commands the unclean spirits;

  • He heals with a word;

  • He calms the storm into silence.

But there is one thing Jesus does NOT do, one thing he never commands or coerces.

That one thing is, so to speak, the dog that doesn’t bark in Mark’s Gospel.

And it is unbelievably important.

[Sermon video below.]

Series: Gospel of Mark (2022)

Scripture: Mark 1:21-28; Mark 1:40-42; Mark 4:35-41; Mark 8:27-30

Date: Sunday, March 6, 2022

 

Stuff I'm Pumped About

 

I’m really looking forward to this Lenten season at Munger, and thought you might be interested in some of what we’ve got going on. So grateful I get to be involved in this stuff. Keep reading until the end—there’s lots here!

 

The Gospel of Mark

As I say on Sundays, Munger is a Bible-reading church. Since 2017, we’ve lived into this aspiration by following church-wide Bible reading plans. Here’s what this looks like:

  • The entire congregation follows the same reading plan;

  • We read through entire books because we believe the entire Bible is a unified story that leads to Jesus; in other words, the Bible isn’t just a collection of individual, inspirational fortune-cookie sayings that can be embroidered on tea-towels;

  • I write a daily commentary that gets posted on my blog each weekday (and emailed out to everyone on my email list);

  • I preach through entire books and only very very rarely do topical sermon series;

  • We hold a few large Wednesday Bible studies for all ages to help folks get the most out of their readings.

Our Lenten Bible reading plan will be through The Gospel of Mark! The readings will be weekdays (with the exceptions of Sunday readings on Palm Sunday and Easter), and they begin on Ash Wednesday (3/2) and conclude on Easter (4/17).

 

[Be sure to pick up our new Mark booklets—the reading plan begins on Ash Wednesday.]

 

I’ve written daily commentary on each Mark reading, and we’ve printed Mark devotional books that have the readings and the commentary assigned to each day of the plan. If you haven’t grabbed yours, be sure to do so before the plan begins on 3/2. (If you live out of town, email info@mungerplace.org and we’ll send you one in the mail.)

I’m kicking off our Mark series this Sunday, 2/27. Can’t wait!

 

 

Daily Online Bible Study and Morning Prayer

Starting Ash Wednesday, March 2, we’ll have daily online Bible study every weekday morning, 7:00-7:10 AM. The format is very simple (and the order we’ll use is inside the front cover of the Mark books!). Here’s the plan:

  • We’ll begin with an opening prayer;

  • Then a brief thought on that day’s Mark reading;

  • And conclude with brief prayers prompted by the comments and requests of those who are tuned in.

You can join us via Facebook Live on the Munger Page (I don’t like Facebook or Meta—that name alone makes me queasy!—but I have to admit that Facebook Live is the best platform we’ve found for this kind of thing): www.facebook.com/mungerplace.

Don’t use Facebook?

  1. I love you. Keep doing what you’re doing—it is NOT worth it.

  2. Join us on our own live video site: www.mungerplace.LIVE. If you are using a desktop browser, you can comment in real time; unfortunately, on the mobile version commenting is not yet possible.

I’d love to have families participate before or on the way to school.

Make it a daily habit, or just join when you can—either way, we’d love to have you.

 

 

Holy Communion Every Wednesday, 7:00-7:20 AM

Speaking of families, we have a brand-new Holy Communion service every Wednesday morning in Lent that I promise will conclude no later than 7:20 AM. It is my hope that families might attend on the way to school—we’ll even have Chick-fil-A breakfast items available each week so you can grab and go on your way. (Uncle Munger is picking up the tab.)

(We’ll keep the daily online Bible study and morning prayer schedule rolling on Wednesdays for folks who are unable to come to church, but because I’ll be at church, I won’t be leading on Wednesday mornings.)

Coming together on Wednesday mornings and receiving Holy Communion is a great way to keep the fires of faith burning during the week.

Come every Wednesday in Lent, or just whenever you can fit it in—you’ll be welcome whenever.

 

 

My Final Daniel Projects at Munger

The Daniel Project is a weekend seminar that I created—it’s 100% my curriculum—no one else teaches it. The reason I say that is because I want you to understand the why behind it: I felt a burden and a responsibility to push back against the culture’s claims against the faith—I wanted to be able to look myself in the mirror and know I’m at least trying.

The schedule is:

Friday, 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM

Saturday, 8:30 AM - 1:30 PM.

What we do over the course of the weekend is look at some of the questions people are asking or hearing about the faith, questions like:

  • Why isn’t there more evidence for God?

  • Does science contradict faith?

  • Is it reasonable to believe in God?

  • Isn’t the Trinity an unnecessary and superfluous idea?

  • Aren’t all religions basically the same, in the end?

  • What is the Bible, and where did it come from?

  • Who decided what was in the Bible?

  • Isn’t Christian teaching on marriage and divorce and singleness cruel and hateful?

  • Etc.

My goal is to help Christians feel more confident in the faith and be able to stand with courage in the midst of a hostile culture. Hence the name, The Daniel Project.

We have two Daniel Project weekends scheduled this spring, March 25th & 26th, 2022
May 6th & 7th, 2022.

PARENTS: I would love to have interested middle school and high school students attend. You are welcome at any time, but I know that the youth ministry is trying to get as many kids as possible to attend the 3/25 weekend together.

More info and registration here.

If you’ve been to a Daniel Project before, I’d love to have you again—I’ve made lots of improvements and changes!

 

 

[Our Wednesday evening Bible studies are some of my favorite times at church.]

 

Churchwide Bible Studies on the Gospel of Mark

March 9 and March 30, 6-7 PM. Dinner in the parking lot to follow. Love these nights!

 

 

Ash Wednesday

Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return;
Repent, and believe the gospel.”

Ash Wednesday is one of my favorite days of the Christian year—it’s both very solemn and hopeful at the same time. Hope you can make it to one of our services that day. Come before school!

Our schedule:

7:00-7:20AM

12:00-12:20 PM

7:00-7:45 PM.

 

 

I’m looking forward to pushing hard these few months at Munger, and I hope you are too.

I’m still grieving like crazy at the thought of leaving, but that also helps me resolve not to waste a single moment—we’re going to have a great spring.

Who’s ready to run?

 

What It Takes

 

Recently my friend Rodney challenged me to write one page on what I believe it takes in our day to be effective in pastoral ministry, and I thought some of you might be interested in what I wrote.

 

 

What It Takes

The purpose of a pastor is to prepare his people to live faithfully in the world. This is how to do that.

 

Engage the Culture

I believe we live in what Aaron Renn has called “Negative World”:

“In [Negative World], being a Christian is a social negative, especially in high-status positions. Christianity in many ways as seen as undermining the social good. Traditional norms are expressly repudiated.”

We must understand that Americans today—particularly the young and educated—are under tremendous pressure to conform to the culture and abandon the faith. A pastor must come to understand the culture’s claims and then must push back against them, showing how following Christ is superior to what the world offers.

 

Lead the People

A pastor must lead, which means he must go first. He needs to cast the vision and inspire the people with what’s possible with God. Going first in Negative World will mean the pastor will face opposition; nevertheless, going first is what love and leadership require and what the people need from their pastor.

 

Teach the Bible

The primary way a pastor prepares his people is through the teaching and loving of scripture. Most American Christians—of either the liberal or conservative variety—are functionally biblically illiterate, so a church must emphasize scripture reading and a pastor must preach sermons that help people understand that the Bible is a unified story that leads to Jesus.

 

Preach Prayer

It has never been harder to learn to be still and quiet before God, and never been more important. The pastor must constantly preach and model the practice of The First 15—the keystone habit of spending the first 15 minutes of every day in prayer, silence, and scripture.

 

Make Weekly Worship the Foundation and Furnace of Everything

Nothing is more important than weekly worship for God’s people. Worship must be inspiring to insiders and engaging to outsiders, and the people must understand and believe that their entire lives need to be structured around weekly church attendance—“never miss a Sunday”.

 

Love the Institution

Our times call for strong institutions, and the pastor must be passionate about stewarding and building on the legacy of those who came before; he must see fundraising and real estate and good governance, etc., as vital to his ministry. Why? Because strong institutions will build strong people.

 

After 12 Years, I'll Be Leaving Munger This Summer

 

Dear Friends,

After 12 years, I will be leaving Munger this summer; my last Sunday will be Pentecost Sunday, June 5, 2022.

As of July 1, I will become the senior pastor of Asbury United Methodist Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

I know this news hits you out of nowhere, so here’s what I want you to know: My wife Elaine and I feel as if the Lord is asking us to leave Munger and our home here in Texas and go to Asbury and Oklahoma.  And we believe that this move is the faithful next step God is asking us to take, as difficult as it may be.

You have loved us extravagantly for 12 years, and we’ve been extravagantly happy at Munger!  I preached this past Sunday about letting go of clarity and choosing trust, and that sermon came out of my own struggles to let go of the people and the place we love so much.  But, I know that God has good things for all of us—we just need to trust.

Asbury is an amazing church, and even with my limited perspective I can see that my gifts and Asbury’s gifts have the potential to make a great partnership.  God is good, and I am excited and grateful that the Lord has plans to use me in a new city.

I am also grateful that Highland Park United Methodist Church had the vision to start a new campus in an old church building in East Dallas and that I was invited to be a part of that plan.  The people of HPUMC gave sacrificially to make that vision happen, and I’ve personally seen the gospel change lives at Munger as a result.  I will never stop being grateful for that vision and generosity.

Yet our family is grieving like crazy because we love you so much; and precisely because we love you so much, we know we must be faithful to what we believe the Lord is asking us to do—anything less would be a betrayal of the love and trust you have in us.

As far as who will be the next pastor at Munger, let me briefly sketch how our system works: Munger is a campus of Highland Park UMC, and I am an associate pastor “appointed” to Highland Park United Methodist Church, and so it will be up to the Rev. Paul Rasmussen, senior minister at Highland Park UMC, and Bishop Mike McKee of the North Texas Conference of the United Methodist Church to determine whom to send to Munger.  Be praying for Paul and the Bishop.

We’ll have the next four months to grieve and give thanks together, and then we’ll be parted for a little while until we’re all reunited together forever.

We have work to do, and each day we get is a gift from God.

If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.”  [Romans 14:8]

Can’t wait to see you Sunday.

Your friend,

Andrew

 

Why I Will Never Again Cancel Worship* (for Weather or Otherwise)

 

The picture above is from Ash Wednesday 2021 at Munger Place Church; not only did we have worship outside in ice and snow that day, but the Texas power outage meant that many of us weren’t even able to go home and warm up in our comfortable houses!

But you know what? That was one of my favorite worship services of these last 2 pandemic years. (And not because I preached in ski goggles.)

With ice and snow in our forecast, I’ve been thinking a lot about the importance of Christian worship, and thought that some of you might be interested in my conclusions and convictions.

 

 

Why I Never Again Want to Cancel Worship*

One of my convictions after living through these last 24 months of a worldwide pandemic:

I will never again cancel weekly worship* (due to bad weather or any other reason).

[Note the asterisk, however!]

These last 24 months have convinced me that nothing is more important than the gathering of God’s people to worship the Crucified Lord.

I really mean that, and though I might have said that in February 2020, in February 2022 I know it.

This means that, despite the bad weather in the forecast for Thursday, we will NOT cancel our weekly Thursday 6 PM worship service this week. (And, God forbid, if weather causes problems into Sunday, we won’t cancel services then, either.)

 

 

Now, About That Asterisk*

When I say that I never want to cancel “worship,” I need to clarify a bit.

What I mean is, no matter the situation, I firmly believe we should never completely cancel worship; we will have some kind of worship gathering. But, that does not necessarily mean that worship will look like normal. In fact, there are many circumstances that will cause us to change what worship normally looks like.

Here’s what I mean:

  • Say the roads are unsafe for drivers. Well, I live within walking distance to church; if the roads are bad, I’ll put on my boots and walk. I’ll be at church no matter what.

  • We’ve told our staff to stay home if they feel unsafe or uncertain for any reason. I trust them and trust them to make wise decisions for themselves. The same goes for our musicians and volunteers, and of course for our childcare workers. (In bad weather, we will certainly cancel childcare.)

  • But if none of our staff or volunteers is able to make it, guess what? I’ll grab a hymnal and lead the congregation present in singing “Amazing Grace”!

  • If the power goes out, then I’ll gather folks in the icy parking lot and we’ll have a worship service under the cold sky.

  • The point: I will personally ensure we will have worship somehow, no matter what.

 

 

Note That I Said I Never Want to Cancel “Worship”

I said we will never cancel “worship.” There are many scenarios (bad weather being only one example) when we would certainly cancel groups, classes, events, meetings, etc. And, although tonight I’m thinking primarily about weather, my experience during this pandemic has taught me that it is possible to make weekly worship happen even in difficult and dangerous circumstances. For example, because of the pandemic, at Munger we met outside all winter long last year. When you are committed and creative enough, weekly worship is possible. It wasn’t the easiest—and Lord knows that there are lots of folks who have strongly disagreed with my leadership during this pandemic!—but I’m so glad we worked hard to make it happen.

 

 

Why This Matters So Much to Me

I think about the saints, martyrs, and apostles who treasured the gospel and literally gave up their lives to ensure that I would hear it, and I think about that gospel and the amazing message it contains—hope beyond hope, life beyond death—and then I think about my short life and the beautiful responsibility that I have received from the ones who’ve gone before, namely to steward the gospel and ensure that a people yet unborn will hear the Good News, and I think about the underground church in China today, and the literal underground church of the Romans catacombs 2,000 years ago, and the relentless pressure we all face to lose hope and give in to despair, and about how worship is fundamental to our belief that God’s love is stronger than the forces of death, and so I conclude:

Nothing is more important than the gathering of God’s people in joyful, grateful worship around the Crucified Lord.

Nothing.

 

 

Make the Best Decisions for Your Household

Many of us can walk to church; many of us cannot. I personally can walk to church, and I’m gonna, come hell or ice water. But as I said above, we’ve encouraged our staff not to come to church if for any reason they feel it’s unsafe to do so. And, I’d say the same to you:

You should NOT come to church if it’s unsafe for you to do so—I trust you to make your own prudential decision about whether you should come or not.

There’s always another Sunday, and if I don’t see you, please know I will not even think twice about it—I’ll know that you’ve made the best decision for your household.

(And by the way, there are lots of churches that don’t have walkable streets around them, and I’m also trusting that those churches—should they make decisions to cancel worship—are also making the best decisions for them. This is about me and my circumstances, not others and their circumstances.)

 

 

No Storms Last Forever

I know that my kids—and me!—are hoping for a nice snowfall.

(As long as we don’t lose power! Please God, let us not lose power!)

I’m also hoping that all of you stay safe, and I look forward to seeing all of you at church when both this storm and the pandemic blow over.

Nothing lasts forever, and spring always arrives, right on time.

 

 

P.S. Pics From Ash Wednesday 2021

Note the orange ladder on which I am perched as I preach my Ash Wednesday message in the freezing cold.

Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return;

Repent, and believe the gospel.

 

My Daughter and Me at Dawn

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Every weekday morning I or a member of our Munger staff leads online community prayer. I enjoy leading it from White Rock Lake whenever possible, and recently my little daughter has started to accompany me.

Yesterday morning was a lovely morning at the lake. We arrived just as the dawn was breaking and enjoyed leading everyone through our brief morning liturgy and taking prayer requests. At the end of morning prayer, we always close by reciting The Lord’s Prayer. My daughter has been working on it with me, and this is how we ended our time together yesterday.

What I like about the video above is how we are looking at each other as we’re reciting it. I’m focused on her, and she’s focused on me.

It struck me later that this is what being a father is all about. Lord knows I fail at this most of the time, but I want to be this kind of father, patiently pouring into his children what he knows about the world so that they can grow up to become big and strong and wise.

Fathers, God has already given us all that our children need from us. More than anything, they need our quiet attention and to benefit from whatever little we possess that’s good, true, and wise. If we give them that—no matter how inadequate or insignificant—we’ll be giving them all that we can.

And that will be enough.

The Most Important Least Important Things

 

Jurgen Klopp, manager of Liverpool Football Club in England, said last year that [sports are] “the most important of the least important things.”

I’ve been thinking a lot about that statement these days. I doubt I’m the only one who finds himself just bone weary of the constant culture war arguments to which all things are currently reduced by the algorithms and editors that we allow to control us these days. The sense that EVERYTHING IS IMPORTANT AND AN OUTRAGE AND YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO IT AND MUST HAVE THE (CORRECT) OPINION ABOUT IT AND IF YOU DO NOT YOU ARE THE PROBLEM just wears a man down. It was there in the early Obama years, but I felt it increase during the second Obama administration (no doubt rising in direct proportion to the spread of the smartphone) until it reached a rolling boil during the Trump administration until (and I wouldn’t have believed it possible) it has become like a pressure cooker during this pandemic.

As I’ve been preaching recently, however, I’m out. I’ve over it. I’m taking back my attention and my heart and my focus from the howling voices that demand I respond to them. It’s not that the issues we’re fighting about don’t matter, it’s that I no longer want to cede my attention to the control of the howling voices. I want to decide when to react, when to be outraged, when to be obsessed.

And so I’ve been thinking recently about where I direct my attention on my own terms.

I’ve been thinking, therefore, about “the most important least important things”.

 

 

Thank God for the NBA

I think our obsession with sports can be unhealthy and idolatrous, and yet these days I’ve come to really appreciate the arguments and petty obsessions that are part of being a sports fan.

I’ll go further:

Thank you God for the NBA!

 

 

Yes, sports won’t stop the plague, they won’t cure cancer, they won’t get the right person elected, they won’t fix our city streets.

But you know what they do accomplish? They offer us a safe place to be obsessive, a safe place to have heated arguments when nothing is at stake, a place to channel the passion and intensity that come along with human nature.

 

 

Stephen A. Cuts My Hair

The place where I go for a haircut has sports channels blaring all day long, and most of that time they aren’t showing live sports, but rather what “30 Rock” called “sports shouting” shows—the ones where they just yell and argue (look up Stephen A. Smith on YouTube for a million examples). All those shows used to annoy me.

 

 
 

(See 30 Rock’s version of “Sports Shouting” 3:23-3:31 in the above clip. Such a funny sitcom—I miss it.)

 

 

Nowadays, I Much Prefer “Sports Shouting” and “Cookiejar Enthusiast”, Thank You Very Much

Nowadays, however, I think I’m grateful for the pointless arguments and petty obsessions that make up shows like “Sports Shouting”. Long may they continue. In fact, I think one of the purposes of civilization is to permit men and women to devote their energies to “unimportant” things like sports and all the other most important least important things we care about, like dog shows and garage bands and dollhouse-collecting and bridge tournaments and arguments over which scope on which hunting rifle firing which type of ammunition would be best to take down an elk at 400 yards in high elevation.

I’ve called the examples above “unimportant”, but that’s not really accurate, is it? Those examples are not unimportant because they are things that we care about and for which we use our God-given creativities. Yes, the examples above might not all be life-and-death and they may not speak to the immigration crisis at the border or how to pass the infrastructure bill or how to cure cancer, but I actually think the point of life is to not have to constantly think about the point of life.

It seems to me that one of the characteristics of a healthy, prosperous civilization is that men and women have the energy to direct at “unimportant” things, rather than worrying about how to make it through the next winter. In light of starvation, a sonnet seems frivolous, but I’m wondering if frivolity—in the highest sense—is one of the purposes of Creation.

 

 

After all, Jesus told us to consider the lilies, and what could be less relevant to our current crises than that?

 

 
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Some Of My Most Important Least Important Things

Above is a screenshot of the front-page of today’s Sports section from The Dallas Morning News, which I look at most days. (I’m old-fashioned and get both the paper delivered and use the e-paper app, which I love.) I like reading about the Cowboys, I like talking to other people about the Cowboys, and I like listening to local talk radio talk about the Cowboys. None of it matters, but I like thinking about it:

  • How did everyone else miss on Dak when he came out of Mississippi State?

  • How did Jerry get two great quarterbacks in a row that no one else thought were good enough?

  • Is Zeke finally going to justify his huge contract this year? Etc.

 
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I also like reading about and watching English soccer, which my brother and I started following on a low budget highlight show on a local sports channel in about 1993. We’d come home from school and tape it on our VCR. I’ve been an inconsistent fan at times in these last nearly 30 years (thirty years (!)—time moves so quickly), but I’ve been much more attentive these last several years, particularly because of the availability of NBC’s Saturday morning Premier League coverage. I like listening to podcasts—especially Men in Blazers—and following the soap opera of the season.

  • Can Pep succeed without a true “number 9”?

  • Does Ole have what it takes?

  • Does the return of Ronaldo actually make Man United a worse team? Etc.

 
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And though I don’t actually care about the NBA much at all, I’m still grateful for it (even when I find its deliberate embrace of woke politics grating). Sometimes it’s just good for us to care about tall men putting a round ball in a metal ring.

 

 

When Most Important and Most Important Least Important Collide

Yesterday, my most important and some of my most important least important loves came together in a lovely way. We went as a family to the last Rangers game of the season—our first time to the new ballpark in Arlington.

 
 

A very generous family in church gave us amazing seats—3 rows behind home plate—it was a beautiful Texas Indian summer afternoon under a blue sky, the roof was open—it is a marvel to behold it slide open along its massive rails— and the entire afternoon was a delight.

The Rangers lost 6-0 despite my daughter’s applause for “our team”, and since it’s been a miserable losing season for Texas, nothing hung on the outcome.

Or maybe that’s the wrong way to look at it.

See, I got to sit with my family and focus on something together in the brief time we have before my children are grown and gone, in the brief time before all of this is gone, me included. Maybe the most important least important things are God’s way of pointing us to what’s actually important. See, I’ve come to believe that this may be the purpose behind God’s gift to us of the most important least important things:

They give us an excuse to just sit and be and love.

 

 
Consider the lilies....
— Jesus of Nazareth
 

 

So, what are some of your most important least important things?

 

How to Improve Your Grip Strength

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This morning at “7”, our Friday morning men’s series, I gave a talk entitled:

How to Get a Date and Keep a Wife.

Our idea for 7 is to talk about practical things that will help Christian men thrive in our culture.

So, you had to be there, but one of the things we discussed is the importance of strength, particularly grip strength. Virtually every man can improve his grip strength. So, the links below are some things I personally am using. You might want something harder or easier, so consider accordingly.

 

 

Equipment for Improving Grip Strength

 

 
 

 

And you can’t beat the good ole Farmer’s Carry:

 

Good luck, gents!

Update: Norm Macdonald, My Brother, and My Broken Face

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I previously told you a story about what happened when my middle brother and I were watching a Norm Macdonald weekend update episode in November 1997. My dad and my 7 (!) year-old youngest brother walked in the room just as Norm was making a wildly transgressive joke about Mary Kay Letourneau, the kind of joke Norm Macdonald specialized in and that made you squirm.

 

An Update From The Brother in Question:

Well, my brother (now a grown man and father of 4 little kids) just texted me to say he didn’t remember the incident at all—he said he was probably just saying something he knew would get a rise out of his older brothers. It makes me laugh now, but at the time I was MORTIFIED when it happened—right in front of my dad!—and am so glad to hear we didn’t mess up the little fella too much (at least that time). I guess the lesson is to be careful about what media the little ones in your house have access to! As my mom likes to say, “Little pitchers have big ears.”

 

Broken Face Story

Some of you have asked about the mention in the postscript about me breaking my face. (Others of you have heard the story previously.)

Here’s what happened:

The week after the incident above, I was playing soccer with a travel team when a boy from the other team came up behind me while I was on the ground and punched me with his full weight behind his fist—he hit me under my right eye socket. I didn’t see what happened but thought that someone had kicked me in the head. It really hurt. (I didn’t do anything to provoke it; it was an ill-tempered game and I just happened to be in the middle of it.)


So, my nose was broken and bleeding and I had a superficial cut under my eye, but it didn’t seem that serious. My mom was there and said, “We need to stitch that up.” So, I went to the hospital, but when there, they found my entire eye orbital was crushed like an eggshell, and I had to have immediate surgery. I woke up next day with a titanium mesh plate under the skin on the right side of my face.


After the surgery, I looked like a zombie—my face was green with bruises and my eye was swollen shut for the next week. Everyone at church and all the girls at school gave me lots of attention!

If you’ve ever thought about me, “No one looks that good naturally”, you are right—I had a lot of work done 24 years ago.

In the dental X-ray above you can see part of the 3D titanium mesh insert that’s holding up my eye.

You never know what the future holds, right?

Munger Old Testament Parking Lot Campout

 

This is going to be fun: we are going to do a campout in the Munger parking lot inspired by an Old Testament holiday. Seriously.

 

 

Sukkot

The Festival of Tabernacles (also called the Festival of Booths) was “one of ancient Israel’s three giant annual feasts, celebrated in autumn” (from The Anchor Yale Bible Dictionary). Every fall, the Israelites would build temporary shelters (or “booths” or “tabernacles”) and live in them for a week to remind them that when they came out of Egypt, they lived in tents on their way to the Promised Land. (See Leviticus 23:33-43.) In Hebrew, the word for a single shelter is a sukkah—plural sukkot—so the holiday was called Sukkot in Hebrew. (Pronounced “soo-COTE”.)

It’s such a cool holiday: every year you get to stay outdoors with your family in a shelter you build and be reminded that all of life is temporary, but that you are heading toward the Promised Land.

(Did you know that Jesus celebrated the Festival of Tabernacles? Read about it in John 7.)

 
Sukkot observance in modern-day Jerusalem.

Sukkot observance in modern-day Jerusalem.

 

Sukkot in Nehemiah

The Festival of Tabernacles is one of the holidays that Nehemiah and Ezra got the returned exiles to observe in 445 BC—you can read about it in Nehemiah 8:13-18.

 

The Munger Old Testament Campout

Since we’re really into Biblical literacy at Munger, and since 2021 has been such a downer, we though it would be fun to do a campout at Munger as a way to make the connection to what we read in the Bible. That’s the whole point: something fun.

When: 6 PM Friday, September 17 to 9 AM Saturday, September 18.

Where: The Munger main parking lot. Campsites are every other parking space around the perimeter of the lot. We’ll keep the center of the lot free so folks have lots of room to spread out and leave plenty of space for hanging out, fire pits, etc. Church bathrooms will be open, but the entire event will take place outside. Pray for good weather!

Cost: Free! And we’ll provide dinner Friday and breakfast Saturday.

What to Bring: Tent/sleeping bags/chairs, etc—basically whatever you want to bring to make yourself comfortable. Bring your own fire pit and wood, s’mores, games, etc. Because Sukkot was also about hospitality, bring stuff to share with another family. Who knows?

Who’s Invited: Anyone who wants to come! If you’re not a camper, so what? You’ll never have an easier camping experience. All ages.

What About Security? We’ll have a police officer on site all-night.

What’s the Program? I’ll teach a brief family-friendly Bible study lesson on Friday evening and lead a brief morning prayer time on Saturday morning. Otherwise, we hope folks just hangout and play games and have fun. Think of it as a giant tailgating experience. We’ll set up our Gaga pit, 9-Square-in-the-Air, and other outdoor games, but bring whatever you have that seems like fun.

 

 

Register Here:

So we know how much food to order, please register here.

This is going to be fun, and we all need some more fun these days.

Are you in?

 

 

P.S. Watch this movie beforehand

Jake Porter on our staff lent me the DVD of this movie several years ago. It’s an Israeli movie called Ushpizin (“the Guests”) that’s about what happens to one family celebrating Sukkot in modern Jerusalem.

 
 

The movie is available to rent for $2.99 on Amazon Prime. It’s probably a bit over the heads of little kids, but I’d recommend it for middle-school aged kids and up. I just watched it again and really like it.

A Personal/Pandemic Letter to My Church on Saturday Evening

 

[I took the above picture on Cape Cod a few weeks ago, and it’s a good reminder to me tonight that this pandemic won’t last forever.]

 

 

It’s Saturday evening, and I am feeling a nervous excitement and anticipation about church tomorrow.

I had a funeral earlier today for a woman in our church whom I used to see every Sunday—if you looked at her, it would seem as if she thought that getting to assemble with the people of God on the first day of the week to sing and pray and learn and listen was the greatest privilege of her life.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from this time of pandemic is that Jan was right—the coming together of the Church on Sunday is the greatest gift and responsibility that the Lord has given us.

Now, I had assumed (and you know what they say about assumptions….) that the pandemic would be behind us when I returned from summer break, but even these past few days have shown me just how wrong that assumption was.

We met outside for worship, rain or shine, from October 2020 into June 2021, and so I’ve had a few folks ask me if we are going to move outside tomorrow.

As I mentioned, I only got back in the office a couple of days ago and had a funeral this morning on which I have been focused these past few days, so I personally have not been able to meet with our staff and leadership and consider if we need to change our Sunday plan going forward.

Consequently, for tomorrow (Sunday, 8/15) we will continue to follow the Sunday plan our staff and leadership had already developed; that is, this Sunday will be exactly the same as last Sunday—we will NOT be moving outside.  (During the middle hour, our elementary Sunday school program will be held outside, however.)

In the week to come we will evaluate what happens tomorrow, and if I and our leaders think we need to adopt a different Sunday plan going forward, we will make that determination and I will let you know of any changes as soon as possible.

In the meantime, I understand there are some people in our congregation who may not feel comfortable gathering with other Mungarians inside our sanctuary on Sundays.  It might be helpful to know that we post each Sunday’s worship service on our website by 7 PM on that Sunday.  In addition, our Thursday evening service draws a much smaller number of people than do our Sunday services, and perhaps an almost-empty sanctuary might be a good option for folks who are desperate to come to church but who are uncomfortable being in our crowded sanctuary on Sunday mornings.

Finally—and I’ll have more to say about this tomorrow—it seems clear to me that this pandemic is being used by dark forces to divide us.  We are of course aware that other people feel very strongly and quite differently than we do about this pandemic protocol or that pandemic protocol.  You will certainly never hear me say that all beliefs or ideas or policies are equal—some beliefs or ideas or policies may be true and good and some may be false and bad.  But, whether or not someone has adopted the correct views or not has absolutely nothing to do with how we are to think of that person; the command of Jesus to his Church is quite clear: we are to love even the people who are wrong.

Let it not be true at Munger that we let this pandemic cause us to hate other Mungarians.  Let us make the decisions we need to make for our families, let us argue and listen and learn, let us show curiosity and empathy, but let us not give ourselves over to contempt and hatred for the people we believe are wrong.

So, here is what I’m asking you tonight:

  • That you would specifically pray for me, as I seek to faithfully lead our church through this pandemic;

  • That you would specifically pray by name for someone in our church whom you believe to be wrong about the pandemic, and ask that the Lord would give you love for that person;

  • And that you’d pray that the Lord would fill our church services with a fiery joy when we gather together.

 

In Christ,

Andrew Forrest

My Teaching/Preaching Schedule For August & September

Low tide at Breakwater Beach, Brewster Flats, Cape Cod.

Low tide at Breakwater Beach, Brewster Flats, Cape Cod.

 

I took the above photo last night on Cape Cod. I need and am so grateful for time away every summer from weekly preaching and teaching, but it won’t be long before we’re back home and kicking off a great fall, and I’m getting excited.

Some of you might be interested in my upcoming teaching and preaching schedule as a new ministry year begins for me—if so, I’ve listed below some of the fun stuff we have coming up.

 

 

What If You Could Start Over?

Sermon series, Sundays August 15 and 22

I’m interested in the following questions these days:

  • What if you could start over?

  • What if you could begin again?

  • What if, knowing what you know now, God gave you another shot?

I’m kicking off the fall by looking at these questions, and I have good news for you:

With God, all things are possible.

 

 

The Daniel Project

Friday-Saturday, August 27-28

The Daniel Project is a weekend seminar I teach in which we look at some of the most difficult and confusing questions people are asking about God and the Christian faith. My goal is for folks to leave feeling confident and to have clarity when they are confronted by these difficult questions. More info here.

 

 

Romans—The Greatest Letter Ever Written

Sermon series, Munger weekend services, kicking off Sunday, August 29

I’m going to be preaching and teaching through Paul’s great Letter to the Romans this fall, starting the last Sunday in August. Romans is not an easy letter, but it is worth it. We’ll be handing out Romans scripture journals as part of a churchwide reading plan; our reading plan begins September 1.

Who’s in?

 

 

Sex Idol! Churchwide Bible Study on Romans and Sexuality

Wednesday, September 1, 6-7 PM

The first chapter of Romans contains one of the longest discussions of sexuality in the Bible. What does the Bible say about human sexuality? Why does Paul connect sexual sin with idolatry? How does this passage make sense of the rest of the letter? How does the Bible’s teaching on sex apply to us today?

I’ll be teaching a Bible study on all of the above in the Munger sanctuary at 6 PM on Wednesday, 9/1. Leave work early just this once, and then join us for food trucks and fun outside afterwards. Separate study on Romans (but not on sex!) for elementary students at the same time, with childcare available for little ones.

You know you’re curious—mark your calendars now.

 

 

Seven - Friday Morning Men’s Series in September

Fridays in September, 7-8 AM, Munger sanctuary

For each of the Fridays in September, I and Rodney Adams will be teaching a men’s breakfast series starting at 7 AM sharp. We’ll provide Chick-fil-A biscuits and coffee.

Fellas, this is a great event to invite other guys to attend. Whom are you going to invite?

 

 

Going to be a great fall. Expect great things!

"The Wedding Song"

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This past Saturday evening I officiated my 150th wedding.

At the bride’s request, I did something I hadn't done at the previous 149: performed a song. The song was "The Wedding Song", by Noel Paul Stookey.

(The video posted below is from the Thursday before the wedding, when I sang the song at Munger during our Thursday evening service as a way to practice.)

The bride helped us start Munger 11 years ago and the groom was a widower from our church with 3 boys. Their wedding was an occasion I had been praying for literally for years.

God is so good.

Happy Memorial Day, everyone.

 

 
 

 

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Today is my 41st birthday, and I think the biggest lesson I’ve learned this past pandemic year is to enjoy the gifts you have while you have them, because you never know when they’ll be taken away.

Say your worst fears of the future will be realized—what good is it to allow future pains to rob you of present joys?

 

 

“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” (Matthew 6:34.)

 

 

Each day may have trouble, but each day has plenty in which to delight, too.

So, here’s to delighting in each day that comes.

 

 

P.S. Folks at church surprised me with a cake tonight. 41 candles!

 

My One Word for 2021

 

Since 2014, I’ve picked a One Word theme for the year. (Last year was 2 words, but you get the idea.)

This year’s word relates to a question I’m obsessed with:

Where does sustained success come from?

To put it another way:

Where does creativity come from? How can creativity be sustained? What does it take to make something of value? What does it take to get things done?

 

 

Jerry Seinfeld on Work

Tim Ferriss’s podcast is hit or miss for me, with more misses than hits. His best interviews are when he doesn’t know his guest personally and is somewhat intimidated by him or her. In those cases he postures and shows off a lot less than at other times, and tends to ask genuinely curious, perceptive questions. This brings to mind what one of Jim Collins’s mentors had to say to him one time: “you need to spend less time trying to be interesting and more time trying to be interested.” (I think one of the best interviews Mr. Ferriss has ever done was with Frank Blake of Home Depot—a good example of being interested, especially in his probing and curious questions about prayer.)

The recent Tim Ferriss interview with Jerry Seinfeld was one of his better ones, probably because they spent a lot of time talking about a subject that both men are interested in: what it takes to get work done.

Jerry Seinfeld is a disciplined writer, which is the only reason he’s been able to thrive as a stand-up comic decade after decade. Here’s Jerry talking about the process:

But my writing sessions used to be very arduous, very painful, like pushing against the wind in soft, muddy ground with a wheelbarrow full of bricks. And I did it. I had to do it because there’s just, as I mentioned in the book, you either learn to do that or you will die in the ecosystem. I learned that really fast and really young, and that saved my life and made my career, that I grasped the essential principle of survival in comedy really young. That principle is: you learn to be a writer. It’s really the profession of writing, that’s what standup comedy is. However you do it, anybody, you can do it any way you want, but if you don’t learn to do it in some form, you will not survive.”

 

“If you don’t learn to do it in some form, you will not survive.”

—Jerry Seinfeld, talking about the discipline of hard work

 

 

Putting Your Work In

You see this same principle in the lives of all professional athletes who make it. Sure, there are some people with talent who light up the highlight reels for a season or two, but there are no examples of athletes who stay on top for a career who don’t put in the work every day. There will always be Johnny Manziel types whose natural talent bring them fleeting success, but unless they learn to work, they will never be anything other than fleeting successes.

Recently I came across an interview with NFL quarterback Russell Wilson in which he said this:

“I gotta earn my career, you know, and how you earn it is by the approach that you take every day. There’s no such thing as days off.

“Someone asked me the other day….“How many days a year do you [work]”? The question is, How many days I don’t. That’s the real question. To me, it’s a 365 day lifestyle—it’s a lifestyle choice. I may take 2 days off a year…. That lifestyle allows you to play for a long time….

“Pretty much every day I wake up around 5….I always pray first and then I’m going to the facility or the gym and putting my work in.”

 
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I don’t know of any professional athletes who have made it a career who wouldn’t say the same thing. Natural talent is what gets you in the door, but it’s hard work that allows you to stay.

 

 

My Life As an Artist

Several years ago now, I came to a conclusion about my work, and that is that my work is primarily creative. What I mean by that is that my primary task is to create something out of nothing every single week. I am—in my own peculiar way—an artist.

I know it sounds pretentious, but conceiving my job as a creative endeavor has been helpful to me. Every single week I stand up in front of a group of people—during the pandemic it’s been a much smaller group than before!—and preach. Preaching, to me, is about creating. Where there was nothing, now there is something.

I have the natural gifts to be a preacher—I have a good memory and I’m poised in front of groups of people. But those gifts can only help you to preach a good sermon once. But preaching once isn’t the job—preaching week after week after week, year after year after year—that’s the job. It is not possible to overstate just how hard it is to do this well.

And there is no way to do it well without putting in the work.

But let me confess something to you—that kind of work does not come easy to me.

 

 

My Two Best Sermon Series Yet

In 2020 I think I preached two excellent sermon series, in my opinion the best I’ve yet preached: Genesis (in two parts) to begin the year and Revelation to end it. I feel as if I actually understand those books now, and I felt like I was able to share that understanding with others in a clear and compelling way.

When I ask myself why and where that insight came from, there is one clear answer:

I put in the work, and God blessed it.

 

 

“Just Read for One Hour, You Idiot”

The kind of books I read to support these two particular sermon series are not quick reads—they require lots of concentration. I’m normally a quick reader, but with these books 20 pages might take me well over an hour. And so I committed to getting in one hour of reading per day, no matter what.

One hour of concentrated reading may not sound like much, but for me it was about keeping a sustainable pace, and allowing the hours to accumulate. “Just sit down and focus for one hour, you idiot” was the kind of self-talk I’d use, and it worked.

 

 

Consistency Is More Important Than Intensity

One of the things I really believe is that consistency is more important than intensity. Anyone can throw himself into a problem with frenzied determination for one day, but one day’s determined work is not what most problems need. Rather, most problems are solved with sustained, relentless focus, day after day after day.

To put it another way, the tortoise always beats the hare.

 

 

When You’re More Hare Than Tortoise

The problem is that I’m not naturally a tortoise—I’m naturally a hare. And in the age of the internet, I have to fight hard to keep my rabbit-like attention from flitting from one shiny carrot to another.

 

 

Deep Work

I know that Cal Newport is right, and that in a world of distraction the ability to give focused attention to the problem in front of you will make you that much more valuable.

I know he’s right, and I know that the only way I can survive in the game is if I put in the work.

At this stage in my life, this is more true than ever, because, by the way:

I have a book manuscript due to the publisher by April 1.

 

 

Jerry Seinfeld, Russell Wilson, Robert Caro

I think it’s because I’m not naturally a tortoise that I admire tortoise-like work so much. I find people like Jerry Seinfeld and Russell Wilson to be inspiring—I want to be like that. I want to be a tortoise.

For that reason, one of the books I read over the last several years and most enjoyed was a brief autobiography from the great biographer Robert Caro entitled, appropriately enough, Working. I loved reading about his patient, relentless process of coming to really understand his subject.

 
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I also want to stand before God one day and give an account of what I’ve done with what he’s given me. I’d much rather be someone with one talent who made ten out of it than someone with ten talents who ended up with twenty.

But, that will only happen through work.

 

 

There Are No Shortcuts

The kind of work I’m talking about is the kind of deliberate practice, putting in the hours, doing the reps, private, unglamorous work without which it is not possible to be a sustained success. I’m not talking about meetings and appointments and phone calls and emails. I’m talking about sitting alone in a room by yourself and just, through force of will, making yourself focus on a problem, and working at it until you’ve wrestled it to the floor.

That’s the kind of work that honors God, because it shows we take his gifts seriously enough to actually develop and hone them.

In fact, I often feel the greatest sense of godly satisfaction when I can look back at something I’ve made and say, “I worked hard on that.”

There is a lot that I want to accomplish in the year ahead and in the years ahead. Like Peter Drucker, I’d like to accomplish more in the second half of my life than in the first. But nothing I want to accomplish will happen if I’m not willing to put in the work, day after day after day.

 

 
 

 

My One Word for 2021

And so, my one word for 2021?

Work.

 

P.S.

It’s 10:00 PM on New Year’s Day, and after I post this I’m going to bed a happy man. You know why?

Because I already put in my work for the day.

First day of the new year, done.

 
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Christmas 2020: "And They All Missed It"

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Think back over the last 365 days, since last Christmas.  Think of all the things that have happened: a global pandemic, civic unrest, a presidential election, etc.

How do you know you were paying attention to what really mattered?

It’s easy to be distracted by what the world considers important: politics and war and wealth and the like.

But, what if God is up to something else entirely?  What if God is at work in other ways? What if you and I on our own are completely unable to tell what’s truly important from what is just distraction?

 What if you’ve been distracted this entire year and missed what’s really been happening?

 After all, when the first Christmas came it happened in a surprising and unexpected way.

 And they all missed it.

Sermon References:

 

 

Think back over the last 365 days, since last Christmas. Think of all the things that have happened: a global pandemic, civic unrest, a presidential election, etc. How do you know you were paying attention to what really mattered? It’s easy to be distracted by what the world considers important: politics and war and wealth and the like. But, what if God is up to something else entirely? What if God is at work in other ways? What if you and I on our own are completely unable to tell what’s truly important from what is just distraction? What if you’ve been distracted this entire year and missed what’s really been happening? After all, when the first Christmas came it happened in a surprising and unexpected way. And they all missed it. Preacher: Andrew Forrest Scripture: Luke 2:1-20 References: Painting: “The Census at Bethlehem,” by Pieter Brueghel the Elder https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Census_at_Bethlehem Good 48 minutes BBC documentary on the painting: “Private Life of a Masterpiece: Census at Bethlehem” < http://www.infocobuild.com/books-and-films/art/PrivateLifeMasterpiece/episode-24.html> The Little Ice Age https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Little_Ice_Age Gallup survey: “Americans' Mental Health Ratings Sink to New Low” https://news.gallup.com/poll/327311/americans-mental-health-ratings-sink-new-low.aspx